Friday, December 20, 2013

Baptism and Confirmation

Sunday was a great day of celebration. My colleague Pastor Celestin and his wife Immaculee have three daughters and two young female dependents (not their biological children, but children for whom they have taken responsibility, for various reasons). On Sunday all five girls were baptized or confirmed in the church.

the 4 left to right for the celebration
The celebration began at the Butare Kinyarwanda parish, about a mile and a half from the PIASS campus. I walked there with some of my students and my colleague Pastor Juvenal and the new PC(USA) volunteer who had just arrived in Kigali on Thursday, after we finished the 8:30 a.m. English service at PIASS. We arrived a bit late, but that was not an issue. This is Africa. We were in time for the choirs, who sang and danced with great delight. There were five of them, so there was lots of music. The baptisms and confirmation came after the sermon, just as in many congregations in the States. The difference was that the events were divided and happened somewhat simultaneously. Three of those to be baptized were 12 or older, so they needed to answer the questions of faith for themselves. Here in the Kinyarwanda service, the Apostle’s Creed is not recited, but is sung, so the girls sang of their faith. It was delightful. The youngest to be baptized   is just 18 months old, so her parents and godmother stood and answered as parents would in the States. One of the girls had been baptized as an infant, so she was to be confirmed.

This is where the service split and the actual baptism and confirmation happened simultaneously. The Presbyterian Church here practices the phrase we use in the States – reformed and always reforming. To address the concerns of the youth who have been influenced by the Pentecostal movement in Africa, the Presbyterians of Rwanda now allows for baptism by immersion for those who wish it. (The church leaders rely on the practice of Jesus for their authority to change things in this way.) The older girls requested immersion baptism. They were the first to use the new “pool” outside the newly constructed church building. Water had to be brought in for the event. The baby was also immersed, but held by her mother. While about half of the congregation went outside to witness the baptisms, the other half remained in the sanctuary for the affirmation of faith and confirmation of the one who had been baptized as an infant. One pastor officiated at the baptism while another officiated for the confirmation. Because this was for a pastor’s children, there were many pastors attending. About15 of us watched from the congregation. The Presbyterian Church here is relatively small with fewer than 200 pastors, so it still has a “family” feel when there are celebrations for the family of the clergy. That was the case here. When the congregation split, so did the family, as Imaculee went with the girls to be baptized and Celestin stayed with the one to be confirmed. He stood with her as she answered her constitutional questions and sang of her faith. After the baptism and confirmation, the congregation was joined again and the cottage group to which the family belongs (the congregation is divided into small “cottage” groups for weekly prayers) sang for the entire congregation, to show their support of the girls. Again, it was a family event, the family of the church.
The tent for the reception

That “family feel” continued as we moved to the family’s home after the service for a reception. The entire congregation was invited. About half the congregation accepted. The family had set up a tent in the side yard, moving the living room furniture out to the tent to provide comfortable setting for some special guests and plastic chairs for others. This meant that the living room could be fitted with the buffet table to serve the over 200 who had come to the reception. After the welcoming speeches, we were entertained by the three choirs that had come with us, as we filled our plates and ate. After the generous meal came speeches and presentation of gifts to the honorees and then thank-you and farewell speeches. The celebration ended about 5 p.m., a full day of sharing joy with friends and the family of faith. There makes for a great celebration.

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